The medieval Jewish philosopher Maimonides distinguished between two kinds of perfection: perfection of the body (wealth, health, social standing) and perfection of the soul (genuine understanding of the world). Most people, he argued in *The Guide for the Perplexed*, spend their entire lives chasing the first kind while calling it the second. What makes this more than an old moralist's complaint is how sharply it maps onto what psychologist Tory Higgins identified as the difference between 'promotion focus' and 'prevention focus' — except Higgins discovered that neither orientation alone predicts satisfaction. What predicts it is something subtler: fit, the alignment between the kind of goal you're pursuing and the strategy you're using to pursue it. A Monday has a way of pulling you toward urgency — the inbox, the backlog, the to-do list reasserting itself. But urgency is a strategy, not a goal. Before you clear the first item today, it's worth asking which kind of perfection you're actually working toward.
Name one thing you are currently working hard on — and then honestly say whether the effort is building the kind of person you want to be, or just maintaining the person you're expected to be.
Drawing from Jewish Philosophy / Motivational Psychology — Moses Maimonides & E. Tory Higgins
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