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Most of us treat trust like a conclusion — something you arrive at after enough evidence accumulates. But the medieval Indian philosopher Gangesa, founder of the Navya-Nyāya school of logic, built an entire epistemology around *sabda* — testimony as a primary source of knowledge, not a derivative one. His insight was that trusting another person's account isn't a shortcut around thinking; it's a distinct cognitive act with its own integrity. Pair that with what attachment theorist Donald Winnicott observed about 'the capacity to be alone in the presence of another' — that genuine trust isn't the absence of uncertainty, it's the willingness to remain open despite it. Together, they expose something useful: we tend to demand certainty before extending trust, but certainty comes *after* the extension, not before. The practical move isn't to gather more evidence before trusting someone — it's to notice that you're often using the demand for certainty as a way to avoid the irreducibly social act of committing.

Who in your life are you currently auditing rather than trusting — and what specifically would 'enough evidence' look like if you named it honestly?

Drawing from Indian Philosophy (Navya-Nyāya) / Object Relations Psychology — Gangesa / Donald Winnicott

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